Previously, I mentioned that it is important to
participate (No Tourists!). Obviously, I mentioned this first because it is
extremely important. This next piece of advice I consider almost as equally
important.
You’re
going to make mistakes. Make them. Own them. Hold onto them.
Hopefully,
you’re not a robot. We have a while before the robots plan their invasion of
Earth, and they will make their own mistakes that will allow a scrappy band of
ragtag misfits to overthrow their leadership. But that’s not for quite a while. My point is that robots make very few mistakes, and you're not one of them.
No,
you are going to make mistakes. The drive to get everything right all the time
is only going to lead to more mistakes. It’s important to make them, and learn
from them. I know you’ve heard the last part of this advice almost repeatedly,
almost to the point that you’re tired of hearing it. But this is true. And I can
remember I was so focused on getting things “right” that I didn’t take the time
to enjoy my failures. My beautiful, sublime failures.
You
are going to fall in love with the wrong person way too early. You’re going to
stay up late watching a Netflix binge of Malcolm
In the Middle and be late for that “really important” Chem Lab in the
morning. You’re going to be in all the wrong classes, drop them, and start
taking Theatre Classes. You’re going to be in all the right classes, drop them
and start taking Theatre Classes. You’re going to decide college isn’t right
for you, and you’re going to go in another direction. The list goes on.
There’s
never a mistake so big you can’t correct it. (Except possibly going skinny
dipping at Crystal Lake. The dude in the hockey mask coming after you is pretty
much relentless.) Just take a deep breath… and enjoy it. Then fix it, as best
you can.
Accept that you are
going to make mistakes. Just make it count for something.
GReat advice...especially like the last line. Very nice!
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